I'm still in that reverie and marvel at what it means that the "reign of God is upon us." Thanks to so many good sources: Martin Smith, Paul Tillich, Diana Butler Bass and their lively coupling with our lectionary's guidance through Matthew's middle chapters the reverie is deep and electric.
There is another source for my musings that I must acknowledge.
My life with you this past year.
This starts a smidge confessional so read with me -- all the way through but -- gently.
Last summer was not easy. My relationships with people I love were a mess. I was still stuck in the quagmire of being until August 12, not-yet-divorced. I was dragging along a mortgage on a house I wasn't living in. I had to change therapists.
For the most part I got through those challenges, just not without lots of help. The help came in two forms mostly: volunteerism and forgiveness. Lots of you stepped up and added yourselves to the labors. Just as many of you forgave me on the front end of my sabbatical and made it available to me in exactly the way I needed.
When I got back to Athens after my trip to Yellowstone my accident pushed on us all. By being both a distraction and an inhibitor it made much of what should have happened in September and later hard and in some cases impossible to do. More volunteerism and more forgiveness needed.
My immobility quieted my life. There was still an air of forgiveness and still people stepping up. We walked through what was left of the year. I didn't run. We didn't run.
There's another reason my world shrank. I was miscalculating forgiveness and volunteerism. I was measuring them transactionally. Afraid to ask for help, afraid to take risks, afraid to move forward because I couldn't afford to pay it back. I took on a few things but still didn't look ahead with any confidence or courage.
That brought a fresh round of setbacks. Mostly private and personal but still restrictive. Still inhibiting.
Something happened. Maybe it was related to my house finally selling. I really can't say but it feels like a seed was planted.
Now our attention is much more forward focused. We can plan, we can even imagine running. Guess who gets to come along from those old days? Forgiveness and volunteerism.
I understand them both now as dynamic realities begun in the presence of God. Forgiveness means trusting God's love enough to pursue healing instead of presuming to do God's work by punishing others. It is no longer a transactional housekeeping of rights and wrongs, of debts and favors. It is a faithful and constant response to the "reign of God [being] upon us."
Otherwise we can only forgive as much as our broken human frames can hold and release. Otherwise we "keep" track of scores and never really let go of the past.
That happens when our worlds shrink and we forget that God is with us. It happens when we hurt and are fatigued in our disappointment. We just want to quit and start new accounts where there is not yet a demand for our accommodations. Some people leave church.
Volunteerism is similarly affected. We just don't show up and we look for benefits for ourselves before others.
Both expand when placed into the hands of God. Both become tools for saying thank you to God for being present with us.
Like many of the truths in my life these apply both corporately and personally. It only hurts when I am or others are stuck in "transaction mode." Still keeping score the old fashioned way.
But God is with us and forgiveness is our admitting to the effect of that nearness of God's kingdom. Without it our accounts are always in danger of being overdrawn and we cannot truly move forward.
With it? We can forgive beyond our hoping, we can step up for each other and help each move into that future where God awaits us.-->